Invites and email messages that are sent from within KickApps come from noreply@kickapps.com. Is there any way to make that noreply@myowndomain? Yes, but you will have to file a special request with KickApps Support.
In each members edit profile section, they can choose to receive email notifications or to simply have community notifications. When you receive a PM if you have selected the option, you will receive email notifications. When you send a PM, check your sent tab. If the message is bolded, its not yet been read. If [...]
Is there an easy way to change the address for email uploads from @kickshare.com to @[yoururl].com? You would have to set the mail server at your own domain to point to @kickshare, but it should work otherwise.
Is there a way to turn off the emails that members receive? There is no configuration for email settings, if a user opts into recieving email updates from the edit my profile section, then they will recieve any alerts via email. Otherwise they will appear in their My Home messages area.
